IBS Β· experiences

You're not the only one who doesn't talk about it

IBS touches on everything that people would rather not discuss out loud: bowel movements, flatulence, a bloated stomach at the wrong time. Below are a number of patterns that often recur.

πŸ”’ These are anonymized, composite patterns based on what patient associations, research and healthcare providers broadly report on this subject. They are not quotes from one specific person. As soon as we receive real, consented experiences, we publish them here carefully and with attribution.
Recognisable patterns

What people often experience

Social planningDaily
β€œAt every appointment I first find out where the toilet is before I figure out how to get there.”
Pattern: life is organized around unpredictable symptoms
The first conversationpostponed for years
β€œI didn't dare to bring it up at the GP for years, because how do you explain that you are afraid of your own intestines.”
Pattern: shame keeps people away from the first step
Diagnosis by exclusionMonths
β€œFirst everything had to change being excluded before someone said the word IBS, while I already knew that there would be nothing bad to be found.”
Pattern: diagnosis only comes after excluding other conditions
The FODMAP dietWeeks to months
β€œI started cutting out my diet myself, without guidance, and only got more confused about what I could still eat.”
Pattern: trying an elimination diet yourself without guidance from a dietitian

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